from across the Atlantic…

22:39 pm

November 30, 2008

peanut - week 19

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Your baby’s sensory development is exploding!

Her brain is designating specialized areas for smell, taste, hearing, vision, and touch.

Some research suggests that she may be able to hear your voice now, so don’t be shy about reading aloud, talking to her, or singing a happy tune if the mood strikes you.

Your baby weighs about 8 1/2 ounces and measures 6 inches, head to bottom — about the size of a large heirloom tomato. Her arms and legs are in the right proportions to each other and the rest of her body now. Her kidneys continue to make urine and the hair on her scalp is sprouting. A waxy protective coating called the vernix caseosa is forming on her skin to prevent it from pickling in the amniotic fluid.

(this picture is the "size" of baby this week next to a quarter…thanks again to babycenter.com)

22:32 pm

baby belly

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So here are the pictures of the baby-belly-debut!

Assuming that we’re at 19 weeks pregnant, so almost 5 months!  Baby belly is really starting to poke out now…but keep in mind, these pictures were taken right after dinner…with my tight clothes on!  Ha, ha!

Here is the links to the two pics so far:
baby belly 1
baby belly 2

12:39 pm

November 28, 2008

bentsen wedding

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Happy soon to be weekend!

This weekend my thoughts will be with my brother Kristian and his girlfriend Katrina, who post weekend will be MARRIED!

They are having a very intimate wedding ceremony tomorrow afternoon with just immediate family.  Unfortunately Lars and I were not able to make the trip, but Kristian and Katrina will be in our thoughts and prayers the entire day.  I’m sure the ceremony will be beautiful and magical…they are just beautiful people, themselves.

I can’t wait to see pictures and to hear all about the glorious event…

Best of luck you two!  I can’t imagine two people who were better molded for each other…I love you both dearly!

09:28 am

November 27, 2008

happy thanksgiving

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Happy Thanksgiving!

Want to wish you all the best today…what a wonderful holiday that brings families together!  I will especially be thinking of my own this year, as I am millions of miles away!

I have such fantastic memories of all the years of Thanksgivings growing up…my mom has 2 sisters and they split up the holidays…so Auntie Sharon did the 4th of July, we did Thanksgiving, and Auntie Darlene did Christmas.  I guess Thanksgiving felt extra special since it was at our house and I was a part of the entire day (make that week!) of preparations.  The whole family would come to our house for dinner and we’d all crowd around the table!  We must have been like 16-20 people every year…it was so much fun to see everyone!  And then the family from out of town would sleep over and we’d have leftovers the next day for lunch and then we’d hit Molbaks, as they put out all their Christmas galore the day after Thanksgiving.

With so many years of celebrating together, there are just so many fun memories!  One year the power went out and my parents were just freaking out…try cooking a turkey for 20 people then!  One year we had snow the day of Thanksgiving…which does NOT happen often in Seattle!  And one year mom and I both ended up coming down with the chickenpox…so I spent the day running around naked (at about 6 years old) with calamine on all my spots!

Anyway, I wish you and yours a wonderful Thanksgiving together!  As much as I will miss my family in Washington this year, I feel so lucky to have such incredible family and friends in Norway with whom I am starting new traditions!

11:10 am

November 26, 2008

new car!

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Yipee!  We finally bought a new car!  We sold our Toyota Corolla in September while my folks were here, so we’ve been relying on Lars work car for the past couple of months.

We found out we were preggo during our search for a car…which altered what we were looking for, just slightly.  So we settled on the Volkswagen Touran which you can check out on this Volkswagen site if your’re interested.  It looks a lot like a mini-van in these pictures…but its more of a little-big car.  A really nice size for a family of 3!  And it has a lot of options as to taking out and/or moving around seats.  Oh, and we bought a 7-seater!  FUN!  I can’t wait to pick it up tomorrow night!

Just wanted to apologize for the lack of blogging lately too.  I’ve been absolutely swamped at work since I started again after my cold…its taken a LONG time to get caught up!  The past couple of days I’ve worked until about 1730 and haven’t been home until 2000!  Too many late nights!  Although the plus side of working so late is that I sleep like a baby!  Luckily I get to work from home tomorrow…so it’ll be nice to sleep a little late in the morning!

We’ve been invited to the Randall’s for Thanksgiving tomorrow night and I’ll be making my dad’s stuffing and my mom’s spinach salad!  For those of you who have tasted them, you know why I’m asked to bring them everywhere I go…they are fantastic!  It’ll be really fun to see all the kids too…and I haven’t seen the Randall’s in forever since I’ve just been so busy lately!  It’ll be fun to celebrate the holiday with friends!

14:04 pm

November 24, 2008

peanut - week 18

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Head to rump, your baby is about 5 1/2 inches long (about the length of a bell pepper) and he weighs almost 7 ounces.

He’s busy flexing his arms and legs — movements that you’ll start noticing more and more in the weeks ahead. His blood vessels are visible through his thin skin, and his ears are now in their final position, although they’re still standing out from his head a bit. A protective covering of myelin is beginning to form around his nerves, a process that will continue for a year after he’s born.

14:24 pm

November 20, 2008

pregnancy “fun”

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Happy Thanksgiving week!

I am attending a Thanksgiving dinner with the American Chamber of Commerce in Norway tonight…and then we were invited to Marit and Scott next week on Thursday to celebrate with their family!  I hadn’t been planning on really celebrating Thanksgiving this year, but these last minute invitations are SO appreciated, and I’m looking forward to them more than I had thought I would!

As for pregnancy updates…I have noticed a couple of funny things that I thought I would share, just for fun!  You can leave me comments if its "fun" that you also experience or if you have more "fun" experiences that I might have to look forward to before long!

The first thing…and the most bizarre that I have found so far is this.  Underwear drives me absolutely insane these days!  Hence the underwear picture in my blog today…and no, I am not exactly trying to sqeeze myself into tiny, red, lacey, thongs!  But here’s the dilemma.  1) I hate having things across my belly lately, so I find that I need to roll the elastic down a bit under my stomach; 2) then the elastic feels too tight across my lower stomach when I sit for long periods (at work); 3) when I roll the elastic down, then its super low in the back too and that has started bothering me; 4) and finally, when I have the elastic rolled down…my maternity pants pull the undies even further down when I walk!  Phew, I’m telling you…this underwear scenario is just exhausting!  Not really sure what the solution is, but I’m thinking of trying low-cut undie-shorties to see if they stay up…but not to far up…better than the ones I have now.

My second thing is mustard.  Yes, mustard.  I swear, I could squeeze the bottle straight into my mouth with nothing else and just love every second of it.  I have restrained myself from doing that…but Lars just sits with his mouth gaping open every morning while I lather my bread with mustard before I throw cheese and turkey on there.  This weeks addition to my turkey (but mostly mustard) sandwich is pickles.  This shouldn’t surprise my parents…as a kid I would come home from school and for an after-school snack my mom would wrap a huge dill pickle in a napkin and I would munch happily away.  Its been awhile though since I’ve been on a pickle kick…and I’ve heard that its a totally normal/common craving during pregnancy.

My last and newest craving is for icecream.  Also, probably not a huge shocker for any of you reading.  But I’ve never been a huge icecream fan in the past.  I’ve always been a salt-craver, so I’m a little surprised at this sudden urge for sweet.  Doesn’t seem to matter what kind of icecream either…although right now a fruity sorbet sounds pretty darn tempting.

Anyway, just wanted to give you the peanut-update…I’ll try to get some belly-bump pics up soon!

14:27 pm

November 19, 2008

tiger woods for president!

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Ha, ha!  Check out this article on cnn.com about who got written in as a candidate for presidency in the election!

The results are from Florida, and Tiger Woods (along with many others) got written in on ballots!

Some other fun ones were Homer Simpson and Willie Nelson!  Hillary Clinton got the most write ins, with Jesus coming in second with 23 votes!

16:08 pm

November 18, 2008

it’s a… ?

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So we had the ultrasound last night…and little baby-peanut was just not ready to show us the goods!

The jordmor (nurse) who did the ultrasound didn’t get to check everything in baby’s legs that she wanted to see either, so we are going back december 11th to have yet another ultrasound and to see if we can determine the sex then!  I don’t think I’d have another ultrasound just to determine the gender, but since the nurse didn’t get through her checklist anyway…we’re going back.

So we’re in suspense a little longer!

The ultrasound was fun though…the baby had its hands up by its face and was waving them around.  And it gave one good kick with its legs (as you can see in the picture) and it was really fun to see how long the legs are!  You can also see the shoulder, elbow, arm and hand in the same pic.  We also got a good peek at baby’s face straight on, and that was really something.  Of course you can’t make out features, but its just so bizarre to see someone deep in there!

Here are all of the ultrasound pictures from yesterday, but the one in the posting is my favorite!

strip of three

baby’s head

baby’s head (closer)

baby’s legs

09:49 am

November 17, 2008

pink or blue?

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So today is the big day…at 1400 we have our next ultrasound and will hopefully be able to determine the gender of the baby!  I have been counting down the days just to see the baby again…I can’t wait!

Last night Lars and I sat on the sofa for a couple hours and browsed baby names lists online…let me tell you, it was hysterical!  I went to mostly nordic sites since there are a lot of "American" names that just don’t quite convert to Norwegian.  I must have read at least 1.000 boy and 1.000 girl names, and let me tell you…there aren’t too many that I’m crazy about!

We have had "baby" names agreed on for many years…but that was before we were pregnant.  Now that we’re pregnant I’m looking at whats most commonly used in Norway, and some of our names are on that list.  So its made me reconsider…but like I said, its hard to find replacements!

Plus Lars and I are both pretty sure we’ll need to see the baby first to choose a name thats suits it…so we’ll see!

Anyway, check back tonight or tomorrow for the gender update!  YIPEE! 

12:57 pm

November 16, 2008

which came first, the chicken or the egg?

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Well, according to the scientists at the University of Calgary…the egg came first.

Well, it’s still unclear whether chicken eggs or chickens came first (the intended question in the original riddle), said Darla Zelenitsky, a paleontologist of the University of Calgary in Alberta who was the first scientist to closely analyze the dinosaur nest.

But interpreted literally, the answer to the riddle is clear. Dinosaurs were forming bird-like nests and laying bird-like eggs long before birds (including chickens) evolved from dinosaurs.

"The egg came before the chicken," Zelenitsky said. "Chickens evolved well after the meat-eating dinosaurs that laid these eggs."

So the original riddle might now be rephrased: Which came first, the dinosaur or the egg? Meanwhile, the new nest provides some of the strongest evidence in North America in favor of the bird-like egg over the chicken.

Check out the entire article here.

11:52 am

peanut - week 17

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Your baby’s skeleton is changing from soft cartilage to bone, and the umbilical cord — her lifeline to the placenta — is growing stronger and thicker.

Your baby weighs 5 ounces now (about as much as a turnip), and she’s around 5 inches long from head to bottom.

She can move her joints, and her sweat glands are starting to develop.

15:05 pm

November 14, 2008

christmas shopping!

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Hold onto your hats…as this weekend I will be kicking off my Christmas shopping!

Andrea and I are meeting after work today to check out the deals downtown…after which we’ll grab some dinner and then head to Drøbak.

She’s going to sleep over at our place so we can head out to Ski Storsenter first thing in the morning and "do" the mall!  I can’t wait!

I love the Christmas season…and starting shopping, and tucking gifts away sounds like the perfect way to start off the season this year!  I’ll let you know if I find any good deals!

16:55 pm

November 12, 2008

“why believe in a god? just be good for goodness’ sake”

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Although I don’t necessarily agree with the wording they are using, "Why believe in a God? Just be good for goodness’ sake", I found this article on cnn.com quite interesting this morning.

The text is from an ad by the The American Humanist Association, to be found on Washington busses now the holiday season closes in on us.

Check out the article here.

I was especially surprised by some of the anti’s comments in the article, for example:

"It’s a stupid ad…How do we define ‘good’ if we don’t believe in God? God in his word, the Bible, tells us what’s good and bad and right and wrong. If we are each ourselves defining what’s good, it’s going to be a crazy world."

(My take: I’m pretty shocked about this one…I have a hard time even understanding that he let himself be quoted for cnn.com.  I for one, hope that people who do not believe in God, or the same God that I believe in, still know good from bad and right from wrong!  If you ask me, if people who DON’T believe in God don’t know how to define good…this "crazy" world is in bigger trouble than then anti above can even imagine!)

and

"It’s the ultimate grinch to say there is no God at a time when millions of people around the world celebrate the birth of Christ…Certainly, they have the right to believe what they want, but this is insulting."

(My take: This guy totally contradicts himself…"they have a right to belive what they want…" but they should believe in what I believe in.  Isn’t it also the ultimate "grinch" thing to say that we should do things a certain way just because majority ("millions of people") are doing it that way?  It could be just as unfair to post Christmas posters that portray God and the message of Christ when there are also millions of people around the world who are NOT celebrating the birth of Christ.

All in all, I don’t believe that Christmas needs to be about God and religion.  There are many people who are not religious who also celebrate their form of Christmas.  Are we going to go into their homes and tell them that they need to attend mass on Christmas eve, or say grace before eating, or tell the story of Jesus’ birth in a manger? 

Isn’t it more important this holiday season, that we do good and encourage good in others?  How about if we embrace and learn from each others differences instead of frowning apon those who are different than we are?  I do agree with the point of the ad, that regardless of your religion or whether or not you believe in God…be good this holiday season.

11:32 am

flu season

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Well, I can say that this posting is nearly a week over-due…a week that I’ve been pathetically laying at home on the sofa…for so long that I’ve started losing my mind.

I felt really tuckerered out last week, so I worked from home on Wednesday…then then by Thursday the culprit became clear…I’ve got an awful cold!  So I’ve been home since then…exactly one week to date and I’m suposed to go back to work tomorrow, but I’m honestly not feeling any better.

I thought the sweats had gone over, but low and behold they’re back again today.  Last night I was up at 0130 because I couldn’t breathe out of either side of my nose…and I started choking on my sore throat.  So up I jumped and ran to the bathroom for my neti pot…which did the trick except I was out of saline solution about half way through!  Typical…although it did the trick well enough to get me back to sleep.  Thought that might have been the end of it, but here I am at 10:27 feeling worse than I’ve felt this whole week.

In my pregnancy bible it says that I cold can’t hurt peanut as long as I don’t get a high fever…and as long as I’m not taking antibiotics that could harm him/her…so I’m just trying to battle this out myself with rest and relaxation.  I’ve been drinking mugs of tea, honey and lemon by the gallon and its soothing on my throat but my sinuses are driving me insane.  Just have to hang in there I guess.

On a lighter note, I have received the date for our sex-determining ultrasound…and we’re going already now on Monday!  We’ll be going to Fredrikstad to have the ultrasound and at the same time to check out the hospital and see if we want to birth there too.  But the more I read and hear about it, the more I think that we’ll go there.  All the rooms are private and dad can overnight with us…and there are 2 birthing pools that anyone can use based on how their birth is going.  Something I hadn’t really considered, but it might be nice to have the option should the time come that I want to try something new. 

So yeah…check back Monday evening for some exciting news about whether we’ll be expecting Ystebø Jr or Ystebø Princess!

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